Dear Doctor Love,
I recently discovered that my teenage daughter is struggling in school. If she continues at this pace, she is likely to fail this year. I have hired a tutor for her, and we try to encourage her to study and improve her grades at home. Even her teacher is making an effort to motivate her, but nothing seems to be working. She doesn’t seem interested in improving her studies. We live a comfortable life and want to provide her with the best opportunities, but at this rate, I worry that she won’t complete her education. What can I do to help her understand the importance of doing better? /s/ Failing at school
Dear Failing at School,
It sounds like you’re doing everything right—providing resources, encouragement, and support. However, academic struggles can often be rooted in more than a lack of interest or motivation. Have you had an open conversation with your daughter about what might be causing her disengagement? It could be anxiety, peer pressure, or even challenges with understanding the material. Beyond a tutor, consider seeking a counselor or psychologist who specializes in adolescents. They might uncover underlying issues that a tutor or teacher may not see. Also, try shifting the focus from grades to goals—help her envision what her future could look like and how education fits into her dreams. Sometimes a little empathy and understanding go further than discipline or motivation. /s/ Dr. Love
Dear Doctor Love.
I recently saw a news report about a woman on the island who was a victim of domestic violence, and it has made me even more concerned about a situation my friend is in. It’s clear that she is in an abusive relationship, yet no one around her seems to be trying to help. I realize I am also guilty of not getting involved. I was raised to believe that you shouldn’t interfere in other people’s household problems and should mind your own business. But what if something terrible happens, and I could have prevented it? However, I now want to do my part to help her, but I’m not sure how. /s/ Domestic Violence
Dear Domestic Violence,
Your concern and desire to act show you have a big heart and a good head on your shoulders. The “mind your own business” mantra is outdated and dangerous in situations like this. Start by talking to your friend privately. Let her know you’re there for her without judgment and encourage her to confide in you. Often, victims of abuse feel isolated and powerless, so simply knowing they have a safe ally can make a difference. If she’s ready, you can help her connect with local support organizations or shelters. If you suspect immediate danger, don’t hesitate to contact authorities or a trusted community leader. Remember, offering support doesn’t mean solving the problem alone—it means being a pillar of strength for her to lean on when she’s ready to take action. /s/ Dr. Love
Dear Doctor Love,
I know this is likely an issue you’ve heard about before, but I would like to express my concern regarding the garbage situation on the island. We have a home in the south and visit two to three times a year, staying for about a month each time. Each visit, I notice more garbage scattered around the island. It’s becoming increasingly unsightly as we drive around the town. Is there a plan in place to address this problem? /s/ Time to clean up
Dear Time to Clean Up,
You’re not alone in noticing the growing garbage issue—it’s a concern for many locals and visitors alike. While plans for improvement often exist, the pace of implementation can be slow. In the meantime, you can take action by encouraging community initiatives like cleanup drives, recycling programs, and waste education. Get in touch with local groups or businesses that may already be organizing such efforts. Bringing attention to the issue through social media, letters to local leaders, or even rallying your neighborhood can amplify the urgency for change. Every effort, no matter how small, helps restore the island’s beauty and sends the message that cleanliness is a shared responsibility. /s/ Dr. Love
Doctor Love is the islands, and possibly the world’s greatest authority on just about everything. The Doctor answers questions concerning any subject except religion or politics. Persons needing additional assistance or counseling should contact Family Services Division at 227-7541. The opinions herein are not necessarily of The San Pedro Sun. Write Doctor Love at PO Box 51, San Pedro Town, Belize, or email: [email protected]
