Tuesday, April 16, 2024

Doctor Love: I want the perfect woman


Dear Doctor Love,

I like women. The problem is that I only like a certain kind of woman. I want one who is smart, sexy and good-looking. For that right woman, I would do anything.

I have been married once before and that marriage ruined me. My wife was anything that any man would want but I was too dumb to know how hard it is to find one like that. I lost her but if I had another one like her I would treat her like a queen. There just aren’t very many of them around and the ones that are out there are so hard to get. It is usually hard to even get a chance to talk to one of them and when I do, what do I say or do to get them interested in me?

/s/ Alone Again


Dear Alone,

If you pay attention, the Doctor will explain to you how to get any woman you want. In order for this to work, you have to follow the practice and take no short cuts.

Treat every woman you meet like a queen. It doesn’t matter if she is the former Miss Belize or the fat girl at the restaurant where you eat lunch. Smile at her, talk to her and try to make her feel special. It doesn’t matter if she is young, old or in between.

This does not mean outright flirting with them, although some of them will misconstrue just talking to them as flirting. That doesn’t hurt a bit. One thing you will discover is that people enjoy being made to feel special. It does them good that you notice them as people.

Furthermore, listen when they talk to you. It only takes a few minutes of your time; even if the person is someone you would not be interested in pursuing a relationship with. If you listen, you will learn some very important things. You will discover that other people are interesting. It works in reverse, too. If you find them interesting, they will find you interesting.

All of the time you are doing this, you will be learning how to talk to other people so that they will find you interesting. You will find that the more you do it, the easier it gets. You will no longer see a smart, sexy, good-looking woman as an object but as someone that you would like to know. You will not be putting her on a pedestal to be worshipped but will see her as a person, instead.

If you follow this formula, when you do meet that special girl that you want to be interested in you, you will be ready for her.

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